Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews Honesty

Relationship Expert Guy Blews promotes honesty with yourself:

Knowing who you are is a constant battle.

Being honest with yourself is a constant mission – or it should be.

Society tries to drill the individual out of you – your parents want you to be what they want you to be, your government wants you to follow their rules, your society wants you to behave according to the ‘norm’, and your religion wants you to be a sheep.

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Your parents tell you fairy tales as if they are real.

Divorcees encourage their children to marry.

Your government controls you through fear.

Your society manipulates you with vapid illusions.

Your religion lies to you… and you know it.

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I encourage you to find your own particular brand of lunacy, and then nourish it.

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Whether that means you DON’T get married, DON’T have children, DON’T buy a home, DON’T practice a religious doctrine, DO travel (often), DO take risks, DO think outside the box, DO what you want to do because that is your dream.

Whatever your brand of lunacy may be, go for it.

Relationship Expert Guy Blews believes you should be honest with yourself.

- DO NOT be swayed by the limited opinions of others.

- DO NOT be held back by limiting beliefs.

- DO NOT be limited by society. Or religion.

- DO be honest with yourself.

- DO stand up for yourself.

- DO listen to yourself.

Once you are honest with yourself and what makes you feel right, then you will have succeeded.

And success only leads to more success.

Honesty – the best policy.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews Adopt-Or-Not

Relationship Expert Guy Blews shocks you into thinking before breeding:

We live in a world with an environmental problem that outstrips every other issue we face.

The environmental issue boils down to one thing – over-population.

Too many people having too many kids.

Yet, adoption is rarely enacted because having your own child is “a love you can’t imagine!” – how many times have you heard that from a parent?

Now, think about what that sentence really means.

It means that you can only love that way with your own offspring.

Which simply proves that love to be an egotistical love.

Why?

Because you don’t love other people’s kids that way, you only love your own kid that way – therefore, the love is based on the fact that the kid is an extension of you.

It is not an existential love, it is an extensional love – it is purely ego driven.

If having kids makes you love like never before, and that love only comes from the child being yours, then that love has to be a self love, a love of the ego.

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What’s the solution?

Try looking in the mirror next time; if you learn to love yourself a little more, you might not need to breed so much to make up for the lack you feel within yourself.

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Prevent another environmental disaster by learning to look within, by learning to work on yourself before breeding a(nother) mini-you.

- The planet could do with less people.

- The environment would be grateful.

- Children that are already here would not be abandoned.

- Adoption is the better option. Especially for your second child.

(If this is a little hard for you to handle – good. It should make you think. Don’t get angry – think. Thank you.)

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews talks about FIGHTING in a relationship:

A new book has come out that says verbal fighting is a good thing in a relationship – but only if you fight fair.

Really? You needed a whole book to tell me that?

Problem -

This is a nice theory that doesn’t touch reality.

Why?

Because fighting is never fair – no matter how someone might wish it was that way.

- Talking can be fair.

- Discussing can be fair.

- Arguing can be fair.

But fighting is never fair.

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If you fight in your relationship, then you are in the wrong relationship – unless you enjoy a fight; which simply means you are acting in ignorance and you’re not even attempting to find a balanced, loving or communicative relationship.

No – fighting is not communication.

- Fighting is excessive and aggressive frustration.

- Fighting is a weak person’s ‘attempt-at-control’ mechanism.

- Fighting is for the ignorant and illogical, for the idiots and the ideological.

If your relationship is filled with fighting, or even if the fighting is irregular but effects your relationship in the long run, then you need to either learn to communicate or you need to vacate.

Fighting is bad for your health – your heart, your blood pressure, your immune system.

Fighting is bad for your brain – your ability to think is overridden by adrenaline.

Fighting is bad for your life – ask any of the soldiers who have just come back from war.

Don’t fight. Do talk. Or walk.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews on the worst qualities a human can express:

The other day I heard a girl trying to justify the fact that she was going to see a Lawyer about getting money from her ex-boyfriend because she was with him for two years.

Two years when he allowed her to live in his mansion and drive his car.

Two years when he also controlled her life, checked her phone and took away her will to work.

Now she blames him for her lack of money.

She does not take responsibility for her own actions.

She does not see that she allowed herself to be controlled.

She does not see that her willingness to give up not only turned him off, but also ruined her life and her sense of self-esteem to the point that she is going to try to steal his money through self-deception.

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Of course, pointing this out to her made no difference – her lack of insight and objectivity only enabled her to see the lie she had told herself.

Let this woman be a lesson to all women everywhere – never lose the ability to survive alone – for if you do, you simply become an unattractive burden to your man and a person who lies to themselves.

If you really spiral out of control, you will also attempt to become a thief.

A thief and a self-deceiver.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews Affection

Relationship Expert Guy Blews gives you a word of advice. Again.

If you want your relationships to flourish, there is one thing you need to do constantly – be affectionate with your partner.

No, that does not mean be needy and weak; it means be caring and kind.

Just because you are now an item, it does not mean you should lessen your affection.

Just because you are married, it does not mean that you can give up on affection.

In fact, the further you get into a relationship, the more you need to enact affection.

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Affection comes in all shapes and sizes, from holding hands as you drive in the car to massaging each other before going to sleep to a quick touch as you pass each other in the kitchen – simple things that make all the difference.

Even a smile is a form of affection that stretches across a room.

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Without affection we wither and die – so does our love.

- Affection offers us the will to carry on.

- Affection helps us realize that we are important.

- Affection confirms that we are still attractive to the person we are with.

- Affection is the essence that separates love and friendship.

Friendship is not enough to make an ‘intimate’ relationship work – we need affection.

Do not forget to enact and accept affection.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews dismantles the fantasy – again:

If someone ever says, “Things happens for a reason”  to you, think about what they are saying.

They are basically relinquishing control over their own existence.

They are making excuses for the situations they encounter, or offering praise to a higher power for the good things they achieve or find.

Relationship Expert Guy Blews gives relationship advice and dating advice that stops the miseducation:

“Nothing happens for a reason” – fact.

Stuff happens and we either learn the lesson or we don’t.

We either avoid that situation in the future or we face it again.

We either work out what works for us and we utilize that knowledge or we fail to see the truth and we find our lives to be repetitive and irritating.

Take your pick.

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Learn from your mistakes or fail – again and again.

When it comes to allowing people into our lives who mistreat us, do not ever claim that they were put there “for a reason”.

If you allow “for a reason” to become a part of your vernacular, then you are accepting that you are weak, ignorant, fearful and indecisive.

- If someone mistreats you, avoid them.

- If you make a mistake, learn from it.

- Stop repeating familiar and destructive patterns.

- If something works for you, be grateful and remember how you got there.

- Repeat the good things. Avoid or discard the bad.

Nothing happens for a reason.

It happens because you allow it to.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews knows something you want to know:

Yes, I know that you want to be adored and admired – we all do.

And yes, I know you want it exactly like you want it and no other way – not too much, not too little.

But…

If you want to be adored, then you have to make the effort to be adorable.

Being adored doesn’t come from being lazy or boring.

You will not be adored just because your mother told you that you are great.

If you want to be adored, then you have to be great.

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First impressions count for more than you think.

You have to make the effort to be different.

You have to be outstanding:

- Stand up straight.

- Sit up straight.

- Shoulders back.

- Speak clearly and intelligently.

- Dress with style.

- Be hygienic.

- Be classy.

- Always excel in conversation and with sexual interaction.

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Listen – it’s better than talking too much.

Observe – it’s better than ignoring.

Details matter – there are no reasons for being overweight or unclean, only excuses.

Think about it – even celebrities plummet in our estimation when we see the truth, when we see them frumpy and plain walking down the street; when they are lazy and unkempt, they lose our respect - but when they are made up and looked after, they rise in our estimation.

Make the effort with your physical appearance and mental attitude.

Be different and you will be adored for your classic individuality.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews Eradicate-Marriage

Relationship Expert Guy Blews asks, “What happens if we eradicate marriage?”

This is what happens if we eradicate marriage -

1. No more divorce.

2. No more excuses – everybody has to take responsibility for their decisions.

3. Decisions have to be based on the truth, on the fact that life is full of change, that nothing is permanent, that your child needs a father and a mother, not a husband or a wife.

4. Women begin to realize that they are empowered, ready and capable, that they do not need a man to support them financially, that they should want a man to support them with the family, that they require something far deeper than financial commitment, they require parental commitment (which does not come from a marriage or a divorce court).

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Marriage is the weak persons crutch, the insecure person’s excuse, the jealous person’s control mechanism – it has nothing to do with commitment, children or unconditional love.

Marriage is the most conditional institute ever set up.

Marriage is a form of validation for a woman who cannot stand up on her own.

Marriage is a weak man’s form of proof – if he was a real man, then his wife would not have needed marriage to feel better about breeding with him.

Marriage only ever reduces a woman to a burden, for if she is an equal partner then she no longer needs marriage.

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- If we stop marriage then we find that relationships have to be built on equality.

- If we stop marriage then men need to learn to communicate – words and actions have to go together.

- If we stop marriage then women begin to understand that they are capable – that marriage only weakens women.

- If we stop marriage we start to be individuals who choose their partners based on the truth, on the present, on the fact that life changes and that’s a good thing.

The truth hurts, but it’s still true.

(If you need a Green Card, then I let you off, but only if you don’t act like a married couple for too long!)

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews Female-Empowerment

Relationship Expert Guy Blews believes in female empowerment:

If women really, truly believed what they know, then they would be able to make decisions based on the truth and on reality instead of accepting fear-based attitudes compounded by society.

If women chose a Father for their child instead of a Husband for themselves, then they would breed with better men and they would make better decisions for their children.

If women were not so agenda driven then they would not scare all the good men away because they would not need a man to complete them and so they would be completely and utterly attractive because they would be total individuals able to succeed with or without a man.

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- The woman who does not need to get married is always the woman with offers.

- The woman who decides that she is better off without men always seems to find a great man.

- The woman who maintains her sense of achievement (whilst allowing her femininity to shine through) is irresistible to men.

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If women actually enacted what they know to be true, they would be truly empowered.

Female empowerment is not about bullying, cajoling, seducing or belittling men, it is not about taking, needing, whining or nagging.

Female empowerment is about having a sense of self, a sense of achievement, a sense of discipline and a sense of understanding that women are perfectly capable as mothers and bread-winners whether they have a man or not.

The woman who cannot survive alone is not empowered, she is desperate. And weak.

Female empowerment is only enacted by the woman who looks for a man to enhance her life, nothing more.

Be empowered.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews on male enhancement:

Men need to lighten up.

Men need to learn to communicate.

Men need to stop the obsession with watching sports – it’s homo-erotic at best.

Men need to understand that clothes matter… as do physique, hygiene, hair and overall style – NO high-waisted ladies jeans, NO running shoes unless you are working out, NO ill-fitting suits, NO fat stomachs, NO hairy backs, or necks, or noses, or ears.

Relationship Expert Guy Blews tells you the truth.

Men need to think about what turns a woman on – here are some clues:

- Communication. Not abuse.

- Sensitivity. Not weakness.

- Manners. Basic ones.

- Strength. Mental.

- Self respect. Physical. Mental. Financial.

There – a brief lesson in male enhancement.

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Men – stop dressing for your friends, stop behaving like the other males you know, stop thinking that being part of a particular group of males will get you noticed, it doesn’t – only the individual stands out…

Women no longer need the controls of marriage or the insecurity of divorce, they need to feel supported, loved, respected and special – it is the role of the man to be there in a loving, decent and secure manner (this will create the greatest relationships) – if a man displays strength of character in all areas of his life, he will not need to marry a woman to make her feel like the mother of his child or the love of her life.

It helps if the male of the species can explain himself clearly too – for then he can allay her fears, appease her worries and accept her strengths.

Words & Actions must go together.

- Guy Blews is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Things More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.