School Of Life

by GuyBlews on November 28, 2011

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Life-Coach-Guy-Blews SCHOOL OF LIFE

Relationship Expert & Life Coach Guy Blews on THE SCHOOL OF LIFE:

As convenient as SCHOOL may or may not be…

As inconvenient as LIFE may or may not be…

There is one thing for sure – LIFE is a far better teacher than SCHOOL.

Yet, SCHOOL seems to be the education we adhere to, forgetting that LIFE is what we have to deal with.

Isn’t it time that we listened to what LIFE is telling us?

Isn’t it time that we educated our children about LIFE (instead of SCHOOLing them with fairytales)?

Isn’t it time to be honest with ourselves and our children, and actually admit that most of what we accept is a total lie?

The standard education system tells us that success is financial – it totally ignores the physical and the emotional.

The current system of education does not teach anyone how to be a parent – it teaches us how to be dependent.

The American school system is considering pizza as a vegetable because of the tomato sauce – god help me… oh, I forgot, if there was a god, she would not have allowed us to be so f*cking stupid.

When will we actually begin to teach our children what they really need to know?

And when will we start to accept what we already know?

LIFE is difficult – we all know that.

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Relationships are hard work – we all hope not.

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The financial system is a mess – we all wish it wasn’t.

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Life-Coach-Guy-Blews SCHOOL OF LIFE

The health of the population of the United States is a joke – we all laugh at that.

Instead of teaching our children that they should spend more than they earn so they don’t have to confront any form of responsibility; instead of telling ourselves that we know how to parent without even considering how ill-prepared we truly are; instead of pretending that a pill will make us healthy; instead of believing that there is one person on this planet who is perfect for us – why don’t we stop…

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And think…

And look at how LIFE really is…

And then work within the reality of money, health and relationships…

The SCHOOL OF LIFE is very clear if you open your eyes.

The SCHOOL OF LIFE repeats it’s lessons over and over and over again.

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The financial markets go round and round in circles – highs and lows.

Relationships that blossom too soon will implode quickly – the good ones build calmly.

If you eat too much and do not exercise you will be fat – and there are no excuses when it comes to weight.

Start to look at the SCHOOL OF LIFE and you will begin to see that spending more than you earn is a fool’s game; that depending on someone else for emotional or financial stability is a losing game; that refusing to exercise whilst indulging yourself is a fat person’s game; that waiting for someone else to complete you is a weak game.

Don’t be miseducated by the fairytales, the fantasy, the lies, the religions, the hopes and dreams of the past, or the desperation of the future – be intelligent, open your eyes, accept the truth and live by the rules of the SCHOOL OF LIFE.

The SCHOOL OF LIFE rewards the individual, exalts the independent, admires the respectful and encourages fairness for all…

But the SCHOOL OF LIFE does not graduate the weak, the needy or the desperate…

Always maintain a sense of self, a sense of achievement, a sense of independence, a sense of reality and the ability to be better than your past – then the SCHOOL OF LIFE will be worth the cost of the education it delivers.

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GUY BLEWS is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Thing$ More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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I Could Care Less

by GuyBlews on November 21, 2011

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews I COULD CARE LESS

Relationship Expert Guy Blews on I COULD CARE LESS:

This post is aimed at my American friends and acquaintances.

If you say “I COULD CARE LESS” then stop.

I COULD CARE LESS makes no sense in the context you are saying it.

I COULD CARE LESS means “I COULD CARE LESS” which does not make sense when you are trying to demonstrate how little you care about whatever it is you are saying you COULD CARE LESS about.

Stop saying “I COULD CARE LESS” and start saying “I COULDN’T CARE LESS”.

**Note the N’T which makes the COULD word into a negative**

I know why you say “I COULD CARE LESS” – because everyone else does…

Just because everyone else says “I COULD CARE LESS” does not mean you should.

“I COULDN’T CARE LESS” is what you mean – because then you are demonstrating how little you care.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews I COULD CARE LESS

Does this make sense to you now?

Every American I know uses “I COULD CARE LESS” as a throw away line about how little they care, and every time they say it I wince.

If you’re going to say something, at least make sure it makes sense.

If it doesn’t make sense then stop saying it.

Please.

I don’t want to twitch anymore… I don’t want to interrupt you and tell you that you just said something that makes no sense and makes you sound like a dumbass. But I will.

Why does this bother me so much?

Because I cannot stand things that do not make sense.

See where I am going here?

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews I COULD CARE LESS

You guessed it – marriage does not make sense.

Marriage is an institution built on insecurity, yet every time I question the point of marriage I am told I am a commitment phobe.

No, I am not a commitment phobe, I am a stupid-decision-phobe.

I am phobic about doing things that other people do without thinking about why they do it or why I should do it…

If your relationship is so great, then why do you need to get married?

If your relationship isn’t so great, then you shouldn’t get married.

End of.

And now, back to the point I was making.

Stop saying “I COULD CARE LESS”.

Start saying “I COULDN’T CARE LESS”.

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Relationship Expert Guy Blews I COULD CARE LESS

If you actually think about what you say and think about whether it makes sense instead of copying what other people say then you might start to think about what you do and think about whether the things you do make sense too… And that has to be a good thing.

Words and actions should always go together – say and do what you mean, not what other people made you think it means.

If you think about what you say and do, you might actually realize that most of what you do is because someone else said it was the right thing to do. And most of the time it isn’t the right thing at all, it’s the wrong thing and it makes no sense.

You see, I COULD CARE LESS, and therefore I have to express myself on things that make me care…

If you say “I COULD CARE LESS” but you mean “I COULDN’T CARE LESS” then start thinking before you speak so I do not have to point out that what you said makes no sense.

Thanks.

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GUY BLEWS is a Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the author of Marriage & How To Avoid It, Realistic Relationships and Less Thing$ More Love which are available at his website (www.RealisticRelationships.com) for $9.99. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world.

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